The Runtyun

She was born the same month that I was, forty years later though. When the excitement of the birth was over and the baby was clean and wrapped up in her birthing cloths, when I stopped feeling woozy and found a certain control over my emotions. The nurse handed me the cooing little bundle–my daughter.

She was warm in my arms. All I could see were her eyes, they were so big. I know that at only a few minutes of age there is not very much for a baby to reference, yet she looked straight at me and she had me. At the time I did not know the adventures that I would go through as a father. The things I would endure as a parent and man. At the time all I saw were eyes and a bright red pudgy face and a little bubble of saliva at the corner of her mouth.

I put her down on the birthing table and just stared. What had I done? This little creature, perfect with ten toes and ten fingers, one little head that looked too big for that little body. What had I done? I put my hand out to her to see what she would do. Nothing. I guess she could not see–being only few minutes old. My finger brushed her hand, she did not jump, but reached out and gripped my finger. She was strong!

She would have to be strong coming into the life I was involved in. We went through a few struggles before getting to the somewhat stable life we live now. During her toddler years she was very out going. Her smile in the morning was brighter than the sun at sunrise. It carried me through some of my darkest days.

Now she is so wise, yet strangely naive. She can understand things beyond her years, yet in another minute ask a question so innocent that I can only wonder. The Runtyun is growing into a fine person despite my parenting skills.

I have stumbled through this whole parenting experiment and you know what? She is doing pretty well despite me.


Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Sunday’s ride Published 2012/05/06

We did the Sunday school thing this morning and when I got finished at the bagel shop and went over to the Cathedral to get the Runtyun, all the kids were outside and having a great time. I can think of no better way to celebrate the greatness of our Creator than watching children laughing and smiling.
We got home from church school and did a few things and then hopped on the bike.
The sound of the Milwaukee iron rumbling to life always sends a tingle of excitement through my spine. Letting the clutch out with a little gas, feeling the first movement and finally settling in the saddle as the speed and volume increase all make my outlook on life so much better.
We were on the way to check out the camp the Runtyun will be going to this summer. I wanted to see it, so we were going to have a look. Really it was an excuse to go for a ride, with a thinly veiled ulterior motive, we both knew the real reason for the ride.
The ride to the camp was all side streets and not much traffic, even still the bike was a joy to ride. We finally got out of town and the road opened a little. It had been too long since I had been on the bike with the notion of riding just for the fun of it. A few turns and curves snuck-up on me. Boy, that bike really handles well, it slows and makes me feel like I know what I am doing. And it slides out of those corners soooo---smoothly.
We finally got to the camp and rode around it. The Runtyun was long faced and a little despondent. This usually means that she will fall asleep if I am not careful. We walked around a little and then mounted. That road to the Parkway, sr 215, is a dream come true. It has straights and curves and views that rival any I have ever seen, all in one 5 mile stretch. Toward the end though, we got stuck behind a cage that was burning oil. Pe--yue!
I was not feeling like riding hard today, what with the Runtyun riding pillion, so I backed off and simply enjoyed the movement of the road and the views of the mountains. It is kinda relaxing to set back and let the bike and road tell me where to go. Yes, we scraped the foot pegs a little and yes there was an occasional dropped gear to lift the front a little and O boy the roar of the engine did stir my primal feelings. Yet I took time to look around, there was a hawk soaring above us. We saw many glimpses of the river we were crossing and little birds flitting about all made the ride.
Finally the Parkway found our tires. We turned toward home. The views, the way the road is designed, the scent of flowers as we past...so wonderful. A ride like this always refreshes me. I drop the issues that plague me. The very moment takes control of my being. 
Feeling the Runtyun shifting behind me reminded me she is there. We pass a few words and laugh at a squirrel as it darts across our path. I am reminded of a deer and a special woman.
We got to a turn out and stretched a little. Walking down the trail, I see my little Runtyun begin to come alive again. Her face turning with a flush, her smile beginning to radiate. Her step getting lighter. We finally get to the river, stream really at this point. The mountains have created a playground of water slides and dipping pools here. We play around. My little water nymph splashes and yammers, her face flashing joy and happiness.
HERE ARE SOME PICS









She let her boots get filled with water and swashed around, an SEG all over her face. I asked her if she is gonna dump the water out before we left. Silly me, what was I thinking!




She sloshed up the trail to the bike, water spilling put of those boots. “My feet feel so good!” Riding the road, I got an earful of






“I got water in my shoe,
water in my shoe.





I got water in my shoe…”




Now this was sung in many different genres; classical, operatic, jazz, rock, country and few that have yet to be named. I could feel the smile beaming from behind me. I was smiling so wide I choked on a couple bumble bees.

After we passed Pisgah Inn and started our final stretch nothing special really happened, I was relaxed. I had a fine machine rolling down a beautiful road. My kid was bouncing around the back of the bike singing, “I got water in my shoe…,” radiating happiness. And I was able to put all of my brain numbing issues aside for a long moment.

Now, a day has gone by and I still feel good. The BS that makes up my day is still there, I still have problems with many things, some personal that can't go away, some from work that will. I will deal with them, but they will not drag at me because my Runtyun and I spent such a great day together. I sometimes wonder if all the stuff that drags me down will succeed in drowning me, yet when a day like this comes along, I know I can swim a thousand miles. I am a lucky guy.
olc


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